I'm 57 husband is 54. We've been married almost 18 years. I have a 37 yo daughter and a 17 yo granddaughter. H says they are like his own but God bless him, he's a rotten parent. He's never been officially depressed, I have and can feel myself slipping back so that's part of why I'm writing. He really is a handful! The marriage is at times miserable. I'd really like it to be better. I'll work for it. But I also see myself trying to escape at least partially for survival's sake.
me: 57 H: 54 M: 18 y Affair over on Dday: 6/99 Never split-up but it was a hard road D: 38 GD:18 I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!
