Quick run down: My H and I seperated last year for approx six months. He has been home for about 7 months now but he hasn't really tried to work on our marriage. Maybe it was just a convienence as he had run out of couches to sleep on. It is also possibe he is having an EA.
My issue is this, he wants to leave again. He says he will be leaving next month. I am confused about what to do while he is here. We get along well and honestly don't fight much, with the exception of the OW I believe he is having the EA with. We still act like a married couple, sleep in the same bed, give each other massages, joke around and laugh together. Should I keep up acting like nothing is happening? As if he's not abandoning our children and I? Or should I stop everyhting and act as though we are already seperated?
Me: 30/ H: 34 DD: 7 / DD: 4 Together 16 years, Married 10 He Moved Out: July 2009 / Came Home: January 2010 Left Again: October 2010
