I think it's good because it had seemed like he was just being really flippant about it all. And here he is clearly miserable and guilty! (Did you read that guilt in the fact that he wants to get a good job quickly to support you?)
Cowardly? yeah. But haven't we already established that he's totally messed up right now?
How would he not be cowardly to you? Engaging you in a debate about whether or not he should do this?
Yes, it will be all one way when he writes the letter. But he will be communicating with you, and to me, that's good. Let's hope he actually writes. If he's like my WH, he will say that he will but he won't.
I wasn't trying to be fake positive, seriously! I really think it's good.
It's so obvious that he has to avoid you to avoid his pain! And going to Europe is the easiest way to do it. P, he is going to fall flat on his face! He is so escaping right now, so much! He thinks if he moves and is with OW and is in a new job, he'll be happy. But he won't, he really really won't. And he will realize that at some point.
Doesn't he sound like he kind of knows what he's talking about in that email? But he doesn't! He is so friggin messed up!
I think it's good.
But anyway, nothing much changes for you still. Still gotta detach and move forward, so...
