I just learned from my wife that she is filing papers for divorce. She just wants me to pay for everything and then in 2 years come in for a final plan. I told her if she wants out I can not stop her. I did tell her that the lawyers will need to arbitrate as I was not going there with her. She is the one who has always wanted the divorce. I will see what happens but frankly it is out of my hands. I feel angry, betrayed, and quite honestly devastated. Bobby O Me: 55 Wife:52 M: 26 T: 29 S:25 D:23,15 Bomb: October 23, 2009 Wife filing against me (told today)