I just learned from my wife that she is filing papers for divorce. She just wants me to pay for everything and then in 2 years come in for a final plan. I told her if she wants out I can not stop her. I did tell her that the lawyers will need to arbitrate as I was not going there with her. She is the one who has always wanted the divorce. I will see what happens but frankly it is out of my hands. I feel angry, betrayed, and quite honestly devastated. Bobby O
Me: 55
Wife:52
M: 26
T: 29
S:25
D:23,15
Bomb: October 23, 2009
Wife filing against me (told today)