X and I had a blowup yesterday. Haven't had one since June (about two months). This was a pretty good one. Went from 0 to 120 in about 30 seconds. That fact causes me to think there were other factors involved: OMH was out of town as he often is and I think this is wearing on X. Poor thing.
X wants to switch the weekends we have the kids and I said no. She immediate blew up and went into a tirade about issues from the marriage and separation she blames upon me. She finally said she was calling her lawyer and would let him deal with this since I was being so "controlling". I replied, "Well you have fun" and hung up.
There really was no reason for her to become so angry so quickly.
Oh well, I'm tempted to go put HER lawyer (or another in his office) on retainer so she can't use him again.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
