She was surpised by that (I don't think she looked at it as an affair). He told her that she would have to end it with one of us (him or me) to sort this out. She ended the session by agreeing to try and work on things between us. She stated that she wasn't going to cut off contact with him due to work (I think--not too sure but it sounds like she has contact with him at some point in her day). She agreed to spend 1/2 hour to an hour each day talking or doing something with me. So we will see what happens. She also stated that she didn't want to go through a divorce and that she hasn't contacted a lawyer. He told her that she could at any time file for a divorce but that we should try to sort things out first and she could always file later if things fall apart between us. So I am waiting again to see how it goes.
