Well we had MC session #3 and it was tough for her and I. I told her that she not putting in the effort to fix us, that I can't do the double standard any longer (I used different words but same meaning) and that if she couldn't change it was over. I have had it and I need to move on. She said then it is over. I told her that I didn't want it to be over but something has got to change. The MC then stopped us and asked her a series of hard questions, like how often she is talking to him (a lot), is it physical (no), does he like her (yes), would she date/marry him (she wasn't sure but he is married), and then told her that she was having an affair. --ran out of room continued on next post--