oh and I didn't read all of your post...I, too, am just learning from the discussions and different points of view and am totally 100% comfortable with the discussion. Seriously! Because there are "different strokes for different folks."

I'm sorry to repeat myself but I really am not "aggressive" NORMALLY! I think that is why I posted those silly 10 steps (and I don't follow a formula, lol! It was just an example!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004