I just had a discussion with my wife that she initiated. She told me she is planning on moving out of the house little by little
I'm not quite sure how one does it little by little. These talks tend to lead in this direction when they are "out there". It's best to stay away from these conversations if at all possible or at the very least cut them short when they really start to take a nose dive.
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and that she wanted to know if I would give her 2000.00 dollars a month to live for the next 2 years.
Umm. No.
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I told her that if she was going to leave that it was her choice to do so.
Good answer.
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I told her I would not commit to a dollar amount unless advised by my lawyer. I did tell her that I would ask for joint physical and legal custody of my daughter who is 15 years old.
I'm not really caught up on your situation. I know you want to stay married and this isn't your choice. Speaking to a lawyer and seeking advice is a good idea, but what is said between you and your lawyer is for you. Don't mention a word to her and please don't get into the "my lawyer says this" discussion. Do your best to keep your mouth closed about your relationship and any legal advice you are getting.. Say nothing.
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She became irate and said that she felt like I was trapping her to stay. I told her I was stating a valid concern and fact.
As silly as this sounds you are both right. It may be a valid concern and what she told you was how she really feels. You can't argue with her feelings pal.
Getting out for a walk is a great idea. Remember to keep your cool at all times no matter what crazy crap you may hear. Avoid conversations like these if you can. Be respectful but at the same time don't let her walk all over you either.
