Journalling really H did make contact and had a major spew before withdrawing finaces. It was a shock that he did this as previously this was one things he said he would never do. (MLC script). He withdrew again after this. Text to the kids became longer inbetween until withdrawing texts altogether. He stopped contacting my family and friends who he had reconnected with previously also. During this time he also stopped using the social networking sites he had previously used.
This disappearing altogether lasted for just over 3 weeks.
Last week he broke the NC and contacted my family again by text and phone. He has also begun to text the kids again every other day, and he is posting again on the networking sites.
I do know he went to the doctors for Anti Depressants but due to tests he is having for his ill health, the doctor refused to give them to him. He is on sick leave from his employment at this time and is looking for a new job due to his unhappiness. He continues to see OW as the answer to his problems.
