H and I went to a wedding last weekend and the officiator started with this story - A chicken told the pig she heard the farmer talk about having ham and eggs for breakfast the next morning. The pig started to cry. The chicken asked the pig what was wrong? The pig said that thinking about ham and eggs for breakfast made him cry. The chicken asked what made him cry about breakfast? The pig told the chicken that for you it was just a contribution, for me it is a total commitment.
Two people in a marriage cannot make contributions, that each are giving 50% to make 100%. Each person must give 100% of yourself to the marriage.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.