If your WAW truly cared about the children, she would make sure that their father spent at least 50% of the time with them, just as you intend for her. She would be selfish to expect more time with them then that, since they need a father just as much as a mother. The pain of not having them with her all of the time, is self-induced, since she is the one that left the M and put your children at risk of various added stresses that is yet to come. Children of divorce do have a more difficult childhood, and it is made more difficult when one parent has limited access to them, and limited parenting opportunities. 50/50, I think is as good as one have it under the circumstances.
Just a thought.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
