Most IC's aren't trained for marriage therapy.. They are pychoanalysts... They don't have conflict negotiation skills, they aren't knowledgeable of the myths of marriage, or the realities of divorce... They aren't up on the research at all...
That's the first step when people arrive here is to get them the education that they need to fight safely and effectively.
Too many people see a white coat and think the person wearing it has all the answers... It's not the case...
I would like to see more IC's lose their license for malpractice... too many are getting away with it... at $250 a hour no less...
