I would like to think the veterans like myself and puppy make some impact... So few people return its hard to measure success rates here...
We try to make a difference...
during my brief time here, i have seen some positive results. the lbs often walks away with some control regardless of whether the was comes back or not. and it's the control that makes the lbs feel empowered and not a victim anymore.
it has definitely made an impact on me and i may not even be dealing with an A.
i admire your tough stance on infidelity. i do not want to see infidelity accepted as a 'social norm'. it's bad enough that society sees divorce as a 'social norm'.
i think the 'therapy' i've received here is 10x better than what my ic did for me.