See, I don't see it as a game or a chase or anything like that. IMO it's just about manners and to me I equate manners with the man making the first move.
I like that! Manners. Not games!! But also, once I think people are in exclusive relationships, we don't worry about games. We are more comfortable (supposed to be--I need to learn how) to express feelings and needs.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004