21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[botanygirl]

I am in a similar sitch as you know chuck,

I guess you are good at keeping calm and not picking fights. I just picked another fight with him this AM. Even though he is often not around and I am usually in an empty house with my D he still waltzes in at 6-7am and goes to sleep so it is so infuriating.

I know i should just leave him alone but sometimes I just can't. I say something mean and then he does and then before I know it i am yelling again.

You are obviously very strong and doing all the right things. I am a terrible DB'r