The trick is taking your ego out of the equation by really focusing on the other person and whether or not they are acting interested instead of focusing on your own interest all of the time.
Of course, don't get deeply involved with somebody you aren't interested in just because they are interested in you either.
I agree with this....it makes sense to me that we have to see if they are interested by their actions and behavior. We also need to be aware of whether we are playing a chase game and that is the draw. But that has never been MY problem, lol! I suspect it happens to men a lot.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004