She keeps throwing the trust issue at me and says I am controlling. She has a secret email account, she guards her phone . . .
Gef,
I am not one of the experts here so I don't have advice for you. Just wanted to say that I got the same smoke and mirrors from my wife. Whenever I confronted her with evidence of deception on her part, she attacked with "you are too controlling" or "our marriage is over because of your mistrust."
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010