I know you don't feel like jumping for joy right now but this is great news! Good for you! I know it's not the same as getting your W and M back and will take time to digest that it is, in fact, gone. Still, as worried and scared as you were that everything would go her way, this is a big deal, a confidence builder.
Don't get cocky or righteous. Hold your head high knowing that you stood up for yourself and the kids and you were not looked upon as a leech or anything other than what you are: A good dad and a good person who was forced to make choices he didn't want to make. And you made the right ones by fighting for what was right!
Congratulations and don't be so hard on yourself for not feeling like celebrating. This still sucks on so many levels. You still have your kids and you KNOW they won't be taken away from you.
Take care and keep fighting for what is right. Love your kids and help them through this.
