That's a big part of my problem; waiting for someone else to do something when I am the one who should be taking control and doing it myself. I still have some things to take care of with my L and she will have the papers ready. I will show them to W and see if she agrees. I'm sure she won't. She will have to get a L then and we'll start the fun of mediation and fighting things out. Won't be fun at all. It's her choice, not mine. I have finally started doing something about it instead of waiting around for her. I hate doing it. I have to, though.
Excellent IDU.....time to take control of your own life and for me to do the same! It may not be fun, but it is the path forward that we have to take. No choice in that one. Godd luck and stay in touch.
