Tell you what, make the profile, find DB & *like* it, and I'll find you & send you a bunch of suggestions. I know mostly the people from MLC, but I'm sure you'll see more names that you recognize.
My 40th is a more... infamous day, if you know what I mean.
I can understand that it would make it harder to go to work functions. I also think that it still might make an awkward situation more difficult if you knew. IF you two were to work it out & you end up at the company picnic with the OM, what is the worst that could happen? People talk? Wait for some kind of reaction? She'll have chosen you by that point & you'll have chosen to forgive her.
Everyone knowing that she slept with Ray from the mailroom who happens to be at the same picnic with you is just going to be fodder for gossip. It will only be as uncomfortable as you let it be. Because really, in the grand scheme of things, who gives a flying f&^% what the typing pool thinks if you've managed to get this back on track?
;o)
The two of you will know what has happened, and how much work you've done to get to that point. The only opinions that will matter will be your own.
Just my two cents.
Last edited by beingreal; 08/16/1008:22 PM.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
