I hope I did this correctly and if I have not please let me know and will try again. I want to say that I appreciate everyone being so kind. It makes me feel better that I am not the only one out here who hurts. I wish I can fast forward and see if my wife and I will be a couple again. There are so many open ended questions in my mind and I guess timw will bare it out. Have there been any success stories and what was the main ingredient to make that happen other than time. What is the average amount of time that this lasts for? If my wife is still in the house; is this better vs her living separate? Is there anything more I should or could do? Bobby O