Not exactly, he said that he thinks I'm physically attractive (=pretty. Which I am, quite honestly) but he doesn't feel attracted to me anymore. "The spark isn't there anymore". We actually did have sex even after he started feeling that way (I didn't know about the problem at the time) but later when we talked he explained that "he still has needs and I just happened to be a willing participant". He didn't specifically want me, he just wanted to have sex and I happened to be there.
He also said that the sex became very boring to him and after thinking about it I agreed. I am not very open in this department and to me, the long distance - being together for a few days, then apart again - made it even more difficult to have open communication about it. He then says I can't blame everything on being apart. But to me it creates a problem and I think we can't move forward in sex like this, we're stuck in the same point, so of course it's boring... But how do we make it better now, still being apart?
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
