If me, as a guy, is always calling or emailing or texting a girl that I like would that be seen as less manly or would that somehow diminish my value in her eyes?
LOL, if it's working, then it's obvious. If it isn't working, your ego won't accept that it isn't working, so you will be confused
The trick is taking your ego out of the equation by really focusing on the other person and whether or not they are acting interested instead of focusing on your own interest all of the time.
Of course, don't get deeply involved with somebody you aren't interested in just because they are interested in you either.
The absolute tell-all action of somebody who is really not interested at all is... they won't commit to a specific time (the old, "if I have nothing really better to do--like wash my hair--we might go out on friday, so I will let you know").
That's pretty much a sure indicator that they either have no real interest, or they are just so unconfident that you should steer clear anyway.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 08/16/1007:56 PM.
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