The wife announced that she is again going away for the weekend to visit friends in September. I told her that she knows the condition of our relationship, that I trust her, and that she could make her own decision. She is still talking to the OM and is in an EA which may be physical. She is now going on this trip. I don't know what to do except that know I can't do this any longer. She keeps throwing the trust issue at me and says I am controlling. She has a secret email account, she guards her phone, and we are still in MC. I am at the point where I am thinking of filing for divorce. We live in a no fault divorce state and we would have to wait 6 months for it to become final. I am just concerned about the kids (10 and 12) and how we would divide everything up. I really wanted to save our marraige but not anymore.....she is a different person now and I can't rely on her to be honest with me. My question is should I give the MC a few more weeks or should I just end it now by filing for divorce?
