Then why is she DISRESPECTING YOU by playing these games?
Just like a cat plays with a mouse. Is she getting off on this POWER and CONTROL? Why give her that? Why make it her choice? The ONLY situations I've seen work where the WAS comes back and SINCERELY wants to try to make a M work is when the LBS becomes the WAS. The sooner YOU let her SEE that the SOONER you MIGHT be able to save your M.
I personally dont believe she is READY to do the WORK that it will take to FULLY COMMIT. I unfortunately think she will have to lose YOU first to really GET IT.
