I still need to work on 'within', like the topic of this thread, confidence - the physical part was easy
it's a great start. but i think the confidence is really preventing you from really shining.
it's like when bears smell fear. it doesn't matter if you hide your fears, it will still show. you have to truly believe that you are fearless .. and then the bear will back down.
changes to your outer appearance is a great start. now if we get that confidence shining through, you will be unstoppable and people are really going to notice.
and like pinhead said .. confidence makes up where one may be lacking in the looks department. i'm not saying this is your case, but confidence adds that je ne sais quoi ..