I agree that it's hypocritical. We talked about transparency, and she agreed to everything except FB, pwd, until after MC on Wednesday. Well, does that give her the right to go through my phone? I just know if I confront her on this, she's going to try to twist and turn it on me to make me be the bad guy.
Because she can go thru your phone and you can't go thru hers? You allowed it.
You leaving your phone out as bait then whining about it is not manly. You waxing your wife is not manly especially when you are cut off.
The real issue is why won't you enforce the boundary of transparency? Waiting for the MC makes you look weak as well. Your W is playing you. Your head is in the sand.
You get it when you respond to other DBers. Lot at your sitch like you are looking into a fishbowl. What do you see?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.