Are you comfortable with him mailing it to you? I wouldn't.
Meeting someplace is a good idea but perhaps make a suggestion so it has more weight. Like a particular mall or some place open/public- not some romantic restaurant.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again