She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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If she would drop the D, I could probably give a little on the all in. Just like she needed to see, not hear my changes. I need to see her commitment, not just her words saying she wants us back.

She knows she can't go all 100% at this time and I can. That's what has her scared. She also said that the fact she wasn't excited when she told me all in had her worried. She felt she should feel some excitement or relief, and she felt no change.

I have validated all of her fears, told her I shared the same fears. It eased her mind, yet she was still willing to let me walk without an answer.

How long do I give her to give me an answer Coach. if she says no now, is that it? Once again, we're back to her time line and control of things.

I feel her wanting to come back is sincere, I just don't like the new terms.