Could use some support

[M-Jo]

Also, some the reasons she gave me for walking are:

She was unhappy and since she most often felt unhappy at home she decided she needed to leave.

She felt like she couldn't do anything for herself/contribute to our family or her work because if something didn't get done - I did it.

She hasn't forgiven herself for all of the detrimental things she was done to our M, and that tainted her views in our M.

She wasn't really prepared for all of the work M needs to work. She felt she "wasn't a strong enough person".

She said I deserve better than her and she thought it was just best to rip the band-aid off.

She said she knows she is being selfish, but she needs to learn how to be herself and do things on her own (this was her main reason). She felt she lost her sense of self in our M and no longer knew who she was. I know our trust issues from her A led to some of this - I didn't really like her doing things by herself as it was hard to trust her. I don't think she was able to handle having trust issues.


I don't know if any of that helps.