NM,
To me that's a red flag...I guess I wasn't expecting him to be so quick to get back together with his ex and just before he did he made the move on you. I know you weren't planning to have a R with him but I was a bit surprised to hear this. And now he won't contact you to even return your stuff.

How about:

"I would really like to have my ring back this week. Goodluck with everything."

"I'll be in the area tomorrow please let me know when will it be a good time to pick up my ring from you. Thanks"


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again