I said that was fine, but I wasn't lying to the kids about why I wasn't going. I said, "We will tell them that you don't want me to go. This would be a good time to tell them that we are splitting up. In fact, why don't you take your ring off and tell everyone in your family what you are planning and why I'm not there. I won't lie to the kids anymore." Then I left for work. Don't know if it was the right thing to say or the right way to say it but I don't care.
I'm proud of you!!! That was Great!!!! I bet that felt good. You are the Alpha male...ooowwwwwwwwwwwww!! No more waiting around for others to decide things for you. IDU is the MAN!
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Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21 Bomb June 18, 2010 I filed D July 20, 2010 W filed counter suit Aug 2 Rings came off Aug 5, 2010
