But that would be a big 180 for her, and I don't think she'd be trying to tempt me or control me. She's really the type who needs a strong emotional connection before the physical stuff, and that's what we've been building back up the last week or two.
Right. And at some point, that emotional connection is going to fill up her bucket, and she's going to become flirty again. It may be sooner than you think. She's already starting holding your hand again. That's a big step for her.
All I'm saying is be prepared.
The comment about becoming a priest/nun... yup. But, you learn to subdue that part of yourself in the interim to save your marriage. I went from ML on average 6 times a month to nothing for three months. I've always been HD, she is LD. Same situation. You learn.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
