Yup... The IC clearly has no training in marriage resolution... Any good FT would know that's the LAST thing you tell a spouse is to "pack so you can run out at any second"

That's the POINT, that marriage is hard and you have conflicts... And you STAY and WORK the SITUATION OUT... NOT running to an affair, to a divorce lawyer, or a hotel to HIDE like a CHILD

I would call up that clinic DFMiL and blast them