Bobby, If you can get the six months to happen, that is important for you. I see two things that will happen. 1. You get to take this time to look at who Bobby is. 2. If this is MLC for your wife, six months can help quite a bit.
Either way, If you have found yourself here, you will find more of what you need no matter what happens. The resources Cadet will give you will help you get to where you need to go. My W lives with me as well and her behavior mirrors your W. Stay tight with these MLC threads. Read every day and ask more questions. People here will help you more than you think.
