It's obvious the interview does not have a WAW, because he's trying to lay blame only on the WS. He also made mention of how damaging these lawsuits are to the OP family. HELLO!!! What about the WS's family?!
It takes two to tango, and the affair would never had happened if the OP had just said no.
That's what I told OW. I've been hit on by lots of married men over the years, and I always sent them back to their wives. If she had done the same, there wouldn't have been a problem. She didn't like me holding her responsible.