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yes we still live together and sleep in the same bed.


Wondering what the pros take is on the same bed. When I first heard from H's lawyer, I was relieved we were living in sep bedrooms as I was so hurt and didn't even want him in the house, much less the bedroom. After I read DR, I realized it was better that he was still around so that I could put my best foot forward on a regular basis and he could see me being happy instead of the pool of tears I had been.

chuck - how can you stand it? are you doing it to keep up appearances for the kids? does the subject ever come up? I can only imagine how difficult that must be for you. I've read other stories here where people are doing the same thing. It just seems so hard.


He: WAH
Me: LBW
Precious: DD

~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.