Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[LRT Land]

MM - definitely go and read the threads where affairs were involved. Boundaries are very important for you to protect yourself. My H did not have an A, but from reading the threads and advice from the pros it sounds like you need to get him to stop all contact with the OW and you need to be firm about that.

He sounds very conflicted right now and PH is right to say keep your expectations low. It's always 3 steps forward and 1 or 2 back with these things.

Be sure and look your best when you have your discussion. And don't mind read!