Posted this on Newcomers. It was suggested that I post this under this forum.
So the other night my W had started to fall asleep. both daughters where out. Heard W's cellphone which i thought one of them was texting her, so I thought instead of waking W up I just deal with it.
I deal with that but see that there is another text. Think it is from the other daughter.
To my shock and surprise, I find text from this guy with stuff saying I love you, w saying I don't wanna to go home because he will want to talk. At which point my W wakes up grabs the phone from me and deletes the text. I ask what is going on?
W tells me that it is a old high school friend who lives in Utah. Not making me feel real good at his point. Start having flash backs from when first W was having an affair... I lost it. W assures me that there is nothing going on...
So today I am doing the bills, got me thinking and I started to look at the text usage and calls... They have been having 30 to 40 minute phone conversations on a regular basis as well as texting on a regular basis. I am still not comfortable.
W now pasword protects her cell phone... won't give me the password Started looking at past cell phone bills...
They started communicating back in March. Texting for hour(s) at a time, talking when I am not around or wife is coming home from work.
Looking like W is having an emotional affair with this guy in Utah....
1. Do you have any info on the OM yet? 2. Does your wife work for a living or does she support at home only? 3. Do you have children? 4. Who pays for the cell phone and the internet access in your home?
You really should get a VERY DETAILED signature so people can better help you. This forum is high traffic and we need to get summaries so we can help you quickly... we don't often have time to read extended threads from other forums.
More to come... But we need more details than what you have given us... That's not much to work with
