Still trying to find my way

[newmama]

Ok so this time, it is supposed to take half as long as last time. Instead of 18 months, it should take 9 months.

And, sadly, for none of the pregnant women on here (or me), the birth of the baby DID NOT bring their H back. SO, I strongly caution you to NOT think your H will be back to you when OW's baby is born....apparently the "reality check" for the men isn't big enough or something!

I do get that you can't just snap out of it and get over it, until something is finalized. So maybe it will take you until November to see your H is still being an idiot.

Mystik, I am not saying he will never be back.