You DO have a phone, right? You have to have a phone, Jstar! To stay in touch for emergencies related to your kids!
So what is the most you can afford for babysitting?

Will your MIL watch them?

I know you are broke, but where there are skanks, there are drug users (men) and those men could harm your babies in some way.
So I don't think you should even ask your H to do it. Besides, he will be unreliable and you will be running around all the time trying to find someone else.

Last edited by newmama; 08/16/10 02:21 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004