Well boom went the D Y N O M I T E!!!!! Meet wife and kids at restruant. Everything going good until she asked if I was staying at the house. I said yes. She was not happy and said she was not coming. I said it's our youngest first day of school shouldn't we all go as a family? She didn't want to hear it. Youngest would not let go of her crying and yelling for her to come home. Finally I just got him and put him the car seat crying. I got mad and told her I hope she though it was worth it. She told me if what I did was worth it. I said no, that I was sorry. All I want to do is help her heal. I could offer transpaerency, phone, etc.... I would help fill her love bucket. She said didn't think there was anything I could do. So I told her if she didn't want to be in the family that she should leave the house. She said why should she be punished for something I did 3 yrs ago. I told she was not being punished. If she didn't think anything she had done had work to seek spirtual path, since she had never tried that way. Said the she didn't have to and nothing is ever good enough. She said God doesn't forgive infedility. It couldn't have gone any worse.

Last edited by didthehurt; 08/16/10 02:08 PM.
me 36
W 33
s-6
s-4
together since 1991
married Dec 2000 9years
first affair before we where married.
Second affair 1/2007
Gone Nov,2007
Back June 2008.
ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010