No-no, the two of you are in this together. In the exact opposite, when I went through my funk last week, (x)W sniped at me for doing what you are and not queing her in. The longer you continue to slouch down on your own and leave him clueless to what bothers you, the harder it's going to be to correct.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11