Punkin, I'm not there yet, either. If my H told me he was happy right now, I would probably look at him quizzically and say nothing, but I would think how sad it was that his happiness had to come at such cost to those who loved him best.
Maybe that will change sometime in the future. I don't know.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man