I think she'll still drop the D, but she can't even give me an idea of what she wants or needs.

I don't know what to do. I guess if she dropped the D it would show me she's committed but afraid.

I told her that I understood that she was afraid and that I was too. I comforted her and reassured her that it was ok to be scared. I just can't fix a marriage while I'm getting divorced.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept