I plan to take your advice about the lawyer. For now just sit back and wait for him to contact me. He knows I'm in no hurry. I'm just the type of person that if there is something I am dreading, I'd rather jump in there and do it and get it over with. I have to sit on that instinct, too.
Who knows, as nutty as he's been, he may have found a new passion over the weekend and forgotten about the land/house. LOL