I am wondering about how to detach when you both live in the same house. My wife has been leaving the house without telling me where she is going at first. She now has started to tell me where she was when she returns. I have pretty much been doing my own thing and not telling her what I am doing unless asked. The big question for me is how do I know when she will be ready to resume this relationship if ever. We travelled the legal road for divorce but could not agree on a separation agreement. My lawyer suggested waiting 6 months as there was too much anger on all our parts. My wife starts her class in a week. This will no doubt stress her out. I have changed my job so that I work one week and am off one week. I did this for 2 reasons. One, my wife in the past felt I was a workoholic and the second was to be available for my 15 yo daughter whenshe is in class. I have noted that there is less anger on her part but she is very unpredictable. I wonder how long this will take to improve? Am I just wasting my time and should I just move on? Bobby O
