Thanks I don't know if it was the right thing to do, but I don't know what is anymore just trying to be strong!! Thanks for you input..
I'm beginning to think the key is being strong in most of our sitch's. We have to show our WAS that we can and will continue our lives, that's why the detachment works (still working on that on myself)
As for knowing whats right I'm with you. It would seem we have to feel our way through this and read the signs, I'm just not very good at it.