My walk away wife story

[40andsadintexas]

Me and my wife have been married 11 1/2 years together for 13 years we have 4 kids ages 10, 7, and a set of 3 year old twins. In early may we got in a fight over how our three year old twins act and she said that I called her a bad parent. She left on monday and stayed in a motel with the kids. On Thursday morning my dad passed away she came home we made all the arrangements and when we were at the cemetery she made the commet that we need to buy some cemetery plots so our kids don't have to make arangments for us. We burried my dad the following Monday one week later I came home from work and she told me the kids were at grandmaws eating dinner, then she told me we had to talk. She told me that she had filed for divorce that day I was served divorce papers on may 19. I bought a book and it started working we were getting along and talking until may 24 when we went to court for tempary orders and she did not get as much child support as she though she was going to get, she became cold and distant. I moved out of the house on may 29th as she got exclusive use of the house in the tempoary orders. The first weekend she didn't have the kids was 6-5-10 she called the kids and told them that she was hanging out with her aunt from out of town. It didn't ring true to me and I got a baby sitter to watch the kids and went and checked on her and found her truck at a local night club. I waited outside until she walked outside holding hands with a man she worked with I watched them kiss on the parking lot then he opened the passenger door and let her in. I drove to my house and watched them drive up to my house then they saw me and ran we exchanged some very harsh text messages that night and the next day I called her a white trash "lady of low morals". On June 16th I counter sued for divorce on grounds of adultery seeking custody of our 4 kids. Since that time I have had very little contact with her except to arrange for the kids. She has called me 3 or 4 times during this time a coupple of days she has been very friendly but most of the time no contact. About mid July my kids told me that she had broken up with the om. Since that time my kids have told me that she has started seeing and old boyfriend her first love and she has had him and his kids over at the house for lunch and that they have all went to a baseball game together. I have ordered the divorce buster books but they have not arived yet. When she first told me that she had filed I ask her about marriage councling and she told me no she was through. At this point it seems like my chances for saving my family are pretty slim. I guess I should have seen this coming but like most men I thought every thing was fine I guess I was the only person surprised by the divorce.